Forums that rank private anatomy create shame, comparison, and unsafe protocol shopping. Sexletics does not run size leaderboards.
Track what compounds: sessions logged, recovery scores, RPE honesty, consent check-in skill, partner repair quality, sleep consistency.
Skill ranks on the platform come from logged training — process metrics — not body measurements.
If a room drifts into size contests or shaming, report it. Culture is enforced, not assumed.